What is love? I don’t know what real unconditional love is, but I do know what young love is because I have been in that once. But real love? I think I can define that because I have/show real love for/toward my mom..but I think that is more of the kind of love you must have for your mom. it’s unconditional and raw respect. Now real love? not the type you feel for a parent but love you feel for someone not in relation to you..once again I don’t believe I have ever felt it but I will say what I believe it to be..
love doesn’t have you guessing, clueless, or assuming..unlike infatuation, which can have you looking like a deer in some bright-ass headlights. With love you don’t have to ask because you already know everything ..like, you ever been with a person and you think you know every damn thing about them then boom, you find out some brand new shit..that’s not love..that’s some deer in the headlights type shit. I believe that love makes you calm, at ease, for real..love will have you smiling all goofy, it makes you feel safe, hopeful..gives you motivation to do and try some new stuff..like write..knowing damn well you ain’t no writer lol you be like ima just give it a try because they make it look so easy. Then you try it and it don’t come out like them lol But love don’t judge, shit at least you tried.
Man, I just love, love, it’s just hard to find..especially that genuine shit. Love, to me is like a stone..they might all look pretty but finding that one different looking one..is gon be hard when they all appear the same and when they all bunched the fuck up..you gotta really be searching.
But to answer my own question that just popped into my head..YES! you can definitely have infatuated love. I asked myself can infatuation with a person turn into love for that person. Yes,it most definitely can 😊
To me, just seeing people in love with each other and happy and smiling..just makes me feel all gushy inside lol I be deadass happy for them. I almost feel like I’m living vicariously through them because I wish to one day have that 🤞🏽 I can not be jealous or envious of their love because I have faith that mine will come right on time 😁