Don’t live for ‘what if’

Live for the now. Accept yourself the way you are right now. Don’t get yourself down by thinking and looking and hating the life you live now. I truly believe that I am unattractive and that I will never find a partner. I honestly believe that no1 will see me, the way that I see myself. I always point out all the things that I do not have and what I wish for on a daily basis to one day have. But what about the things that I am blessed with now? I don’t give them any’s not that I do not notice them or that I will not be sad if they mysteriously disappeared..but I don’t give praise to them at all. I go about my day as if nothing will change..and that I must focus and be attentive to those things I do not have..maintain my focus..and those things will mysteriously appear.
I have always known that things do not work like that. How can I give all my attention and focus to something that I do not have yet? That’s honestly stupid. How do I expect to receive those things I want without showing love and appreciation for the things I have?
Live for the now. Don’t focus on the what if..look at your life now..give thanks and what you want..will come.

2 thoughts on “Don’t live for ‘what if’”

  1. Oh yeah, focusing on the now is a very important thing, and it helps with anxiety for the future too. A wise person once said: Why waste your time worrying about something that’s not promised?

    That’s so true, because even our fears are not promised. What’s promised is happening right now. Anyway, thanks for this post!

    1. It does cause anxiety and stress and a weird feeling when thinking about the past or the future right?! I try to just focus on the now and not about tomorrow or yesterday but focusing on the now is kinda hard..because I do not like my current situation but I am grateful for my now even though it is disappointing

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